Don’t judge a book by it’s cover!

Sunt uneori uimita de mentalitatea de turma. De prostia omeneasca. De faptul ca suntem asa limitati ca judecam oamenii aspru si pe nedrept. Ii judecam fara sa ii cunoastem. Daca ai tatuaje, sau o freza ciudata, daca ai un decolteu mai “pronuntat” , daca te imbraci in negru…esti direct catalogat. Judeam dupa aparente, prea repede. Nu stim ce este in spatele fiecarui chip. Judecam oamenii fara sa le stim istoria, ii evitam si ii catalogam. Sa nu mai vorbim de cei cu defecte fizice sau psihice, ei nu sunt considerati oameni. Am vazut mame care nu isi lasa copiii sa se joace cu alti copii cu dizabilitati. Am vazut oameni care se holbau efectiv la cei fie orbi, fie infirmi, fie cu vre-o boala mintala. De ce sa te holbezi, de ce sa ii eviti, de ce sa susotesti in spatele lor? Nu vor sa fie asa, sunt oameni si ei, nu sunt deloc diferiti. Nici macar pe cei prosti, sau neciopliti nu avem dreptul sa ii judeam, pentru ca nu le stim trecutul, istoria, genele…nu stim nimic. Si totusi judecam, batjocorim, umilim, de ce? Thanks   K for the photos.

I was wearing Converse sneakers, Terra Nova socks, Meli Melo sun glasses, Pandora necklace,  Mango dress

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 
Today’s quote: “Stop trying to ‘fix’ yourself; you’re NOT broken! You are perfectly imperfect and powerful beyond measure.  When we see someone or something as imperfect, it is a reflection of our limitations, not theirs.”

Don’t judge others because you can’t understand them. Or because they look different. Don’t stare at people, don’t whisper next to them…act normal. I tended to judge people, and I know that everyone tends to do
that. Don’t judge, because people may be different not because they want, or
to be cool, they can be different because they were born like that. There are people with physical or  mental disease, that we can not understand, and it’s OK. It’s not OK when we judge their family, or them, or when we stare at them like they are less human than us. Even the fact that someone is stupid, or uncouth, even that is not a  thing to blame. We have no right to say what is normal or not, because normality is questionable. I have seen people that avoid to walk next to ill people, or mothers that don’t let their children to play with children that are different. Why would you do that?

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76 Comments

  1. Life isn't always just milk and honey. Life is tough. Sometimes we have to embrace sadness, because it's a part of our lives….. It's not sad, it's just life. And yes the photos are very nice. Thanks K. 😉

  2. Trebuie sa recunosc ca inainte faceam si eu greseala asta, sa judec dupa aparente…dar din fericire viata m-a invatat sa nu mai fiu superficiala!

    Imi place foarte mult rochia denim!

  3. Foarte draguta rochita si pozele! ce norocoasa esti ca ai un fotograf personal 🙂

    Din pacate, ai mare dreptate cu ceea ce ai scris mai sus, dar tin sa precizez ca "fenomenul" de a judeca oamenii fara sa stii absolut nimic despre ei este foarte pronuntat in Romania (tind sa cred ca mai pronuntat decat in tarile vestice) si pot sa spun ca am observat treaba asta dupa am cunoscut o multime de alte natii din toate colturile lumii. Sunt oameni si oameni si nu vad de ce ar trebui judecati, iar fiecare are dreptul sa fie si sa traiasca cum vrea. Referitor la cei cu dizabilitati, cred ca cei care ii judeca sunt de fapt cei limitati.

    pupici!

    http://www.flashforwards.blogspot.com

    1. Da… suntem o natie acre judecam dupa aparente. Suntem inca incuiati…ne vom dezgheta si noi peste ani si ani. Sunt norocoasa ca o am ca prietena pe Klaudia. Este un fotograf bun, si e fain sa ai poze profi. 😉

  4. frumoase fotografii!
    in rest, ce sa zic? fiecare cum poate! eu am un stil asa de-a face oamenii sa se holbeze :)…am cate un detaliu iesit din comun, cand totul pare super cuminte :)))

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  6. buna draguta. da, sunt romanca, doar ca pe blog scriu in spaniola. locuiesc in spania de multi ani si cei mai multi vizitatori sunt spanioli.. te pup si mersid e comenatriul tau dragut

  7. That's right and I totaly agree with all of those statements of you, though it's really hard sometimes not to judge. You know, we are all just humans and we can be in a different state of mind or situations, that's why sometimes it's really hard to make right things and to act wisely.
    I love that song by the way and I do like Pink in general, she is probably the only one honest singer t my mind.
    oh, and you look charming, dear Ella) No matter what you are wearing) Those earings are just like from a fairy tale)
    Wish you a blessed day ahead!

    http://www.svetusvet.com

    1. How can you be so nice all the time? 🙂 Thank you very much for having time to express your opinion, for reading my posts, and for being so damn adorable. A lovely week Alexandra. 🙂

  8. hello dear! thank you for your lovely comment! following You now 🙂 hope You will follow me too :))

    xoxo

    Kathy from fashiongamesblog.blogspot.com

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