Validation!

Cu totii simtim nevoia de validare. Simtim nevoia sa stim ca existam, ca suntem vazuti, ca suntem auziti. Ca, contam! Asa ca atunci cand simti un impuls de a spune cuiva ca este important, nu te opri. Spune ceea ce gandesti, spune-i ca este un model, spune-i ca este frumos , inteligent..nu te gandi ca deja stie. Toti avem nevoie din cand in cand sa auzim ca suntem importanti.. Gandeste-te , ultima data cand cineva ti-a zis ca esti o persoana care’i inspira, sau ca esti frumoasa, sau inteligenta sau orice alt mod de validare al existentei tale pozitive, a  fost bine, nu?! Hai sa imartim atunci, si spune celor din jur ca ii vezi si esti constient de existenta lor.

Terra Nova necklace, Stradivarius pants, no name blouse, No name bag, coat and boots

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

Today’s quote:  “Just like children, emotions heal when they are heard and validated.”

We all need validation. We all need to know that we are seen, heard, and that we are important for others. So whenever you feel like telling people they are important to you, don’t stop. Tell them how important they are, tell them what you like about them, what is inspiring about them. All the good things that we forget to say, because we think that they already know that. Think how good you felt last time when a  person told you how important/brave/beautiful/ smart or something else you are. Didn’t you felt wonderful. Make others know that they exist not just for them, that they are important for you also.

Congratulation to the winner from  Dressales  giveaway Dianne Tho  .

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31 Comments

  1. wow, you do a good job in match again,pretty girl!!!!!!!
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  2. What a beautiful and fun necklace. I lovve these colours together and the touch of pattern. That's a great place for photos, all the buildings look like they have so much character.

  3. I totally agree with you, life is too short and we shouldn't spend it for
    angriness and depressions, we should be more kind to our dearest and nearest, we should spread love and should be more outspoken and tell them more often how much we care. Maybe then this world will be a better place to live in)
    By the way that picture with cats and a dog is just a knockout! That is so so cute!)))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))) I also like your outfit, casual yet chic)

  4. Imi place tinuta, colorata si ce culori faine! Nu trebuie sa exageram cu cuvintele, doar sa spunem ce simtim. Si ce daca ne repetam sau spunem ce deja au spus altii, prin cuvintele noastre intarim ceea ce au spus si altii. 🙂

  5. foarte draguta tinuta, iar tu ca deobicei esti veselia in persoana, si pe langa ca iti sta tare bine iti bine-dispui si cititorii! 🙂 Te prinde tare bine portocaliul iar manusile sunt uber cute! 🙂 pupici

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